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The Siren's Call

  • Apr 2
  • 9 min read

How Working With Siren Energy Changed Me



The myth of the Siren has always been used as a cautionary tale. We get told of how dangerous they are and often times spotted lounging on some jagged rocks using their voices to lure in unsuspecting sailors to their demise. 


Maybe I am more of a dark feminine, but one thing that really stood out to me through all the stories was how they were able to attract. How they were able to effortlessly lure. 


I wanted that.


But not in the sense of luring people to their doom and deaths, but like I could probably attract other things, right?


The hustle and grind of our society has become exhausting. As a millenial who is seriously questioning if retirement is even an option for me (in Canada they moved the retirement age, they are already making it harder for the next group to access their pensions.) if I can ever afford another decent vehicle, and could literally vomit everytime I buy groceries and then remember I am going to have to do this for the rest of my life… maybe it is time to look into some other more mystical options. 


I fully believe that every myth and legend comes from some bit of truth. That the reason why these stories have survived the ages, is because there is something more to them other than just being a tale or a story.


So it was the deep dark of winter in Canada, and I dove right into this research. 

It soon became apparent to me that the Siren wasn’t always the monster of destruction; to me, she felt like the ultimate archetype of magnetic manifestation. By working with their energy, the goal was to stop feeling the chase and to start becoming the frequency that attracts them. This might sound very new age, but there is some science behind matching frequencies. The issue was, how can I master my own frequency and energy or just build a foundation that I can work with and master through trial and error? 


I have tried the whole act like you already have it, but it never worked for me. The whole visualization technique of playing it out in your head of what it would look like and feel like also never worked for me. It has become more difficult with a 1-year-old as well. I go into my fantasy world, get in tune and WHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA. Snapped back to reality… nervous system shot through the roof, survival mode engaged. Vagus nerve fried. 



The Great Misunderstanding → Was the Siren Silenced??

Does it not feel like a calculated move to suppress this type of energetic power? Could you imagine if we all just knew how to adjust and manifest and lure with ease… we would not have to slave or hustle. The idea that value is only created through gruelling labour and keeping this linear mindset has been drilled and programmed into us so hard that we get called crazy when we speak otherwise. Some might even tell us to shut the hell up and get back to work. 


Modern society often views desires as something to be controlled or suppressed. I feel that the Siren was demonized because she represented the power of unapologetic attraction. It also caused us to be emotionally stunted and lack emotional depth. 


Sirens are creatures associated with water, and water rules the emotions, the subconscious, and the intuition. By labelling them as evil demons, we were effectively programmed to ignore our emotional depths in favour of cold, hard, and productivity. 

They are often seen as predators as well. Here is a question to think about… the idea that Sirens lure to kill, is this a projection of a culture that fears the powers of the divine feminine? Cause in reality, in many stories, the Siren just exists. We could maybe say that the danger felt by people who crossed paths with them was maybe the ego dissolving in the presence of pure raw energy and essence. Remember, we all have both feminine and masculine energies; I am not talking about a battle of the sexes here. We have seen and tapped into and seen the masculine energies in society, but why are we so scared or nervous around a powerful feminine energy?


I loved that idea. What if normal everyday people who just want some good in the world knew how to tap into pure raw energy and essence? 



The Inner Magnet

I soon found that working with the Siren energy was about shifting my energy from force to power. When I say power, think of a magnet. That kind of power. You cannot see it, but you can feel it. I started to play around to see what would happen if I started adjusting my inner magnet. For most of my life, I have focused on the things that I do not want to happen. This seemed like I had my magnet backwards. I always felt like there was an invisible force around me that always made the things I wanted just out of my reach. I could see it, but the closer I moved, the more it was pushed away by something. So the magnet became my focus point. 


I have dabbled with various types of manifestation techniques before, but I found they were a lot of “doing”… I do not have any more time in my day for more doing, between being a mom, a business owner, and trying to bring my health back to life, it was just one more thing on my already long to do list. 

Sidenote: I will say, though, the one thing that I feel HAS worked for me that was just a one-and-done technique has been a manifestation board that hangs in my office above my computer, but I feel I know why it worked so well, let's get into it…

Siren energy focuses on vibration. They seem to understand that their internal state creates an external pull. When you embody this, you stop seeking and start receiving. By having the board above my desk, I look at it multiple times a day and am reminded of the things I really want in life. It took me one day to make that board, not a nightly ritual for weeks on end. It's April, and I can already say that I have attracted at least 4 things on that board. It has helped me direct my energy to the things I want to see more of. It's given me focus and grounds me; it reminds me every day of what really matters to me. 

One thing that also became apparent on my Siren journey was that they do not look over their shoulders and wonder if people are watching. Others around them are consumed by their essence and presence. When you are fully home in your body, your pleasures, your energetic signature becomes dense and irresistible. This brings in effortless attraction. 


This then caused me to really explore my nervous system. I began researching ways to “hack” my nervous system back into place when I am on the go or just unable to have a minute alone, cause lets face it. Its the moments when you're with others or out and about that the nervous system is most susceptible to being shaken or knocked out of alignment. One of the big ones that kept popping up was scent and texture. So I then went and bought some tommy hilfigure pj’s that are oh so soft and went through my perfumes and designated each one a frequency. One is labelled for money finds me, one is ease, one is fame, another is for the “sweet stuff” in life and so on. After waking up feeling like a momma goddess, I pick what I want that day, give it a sprit, and every time I catch a whiff, I am reminded of the frequency of the day. 



The Magic of Ease

I started to notice that reclaiming suppressed power and essence isn’t about rowing against the current or doing more. It was about doing less or being more intentional, and in order to do that, I needed to look into how to bring that to the table. 


During a meditation on this, I kept seeing a mirror. I was frustrated because I couldn’t see anything in the mirror, but once I opened my eyes, I realized the message was to look in the mirror. 


I sat down in front of my long mirror and gazed. Soon, I saw many lifetimes of my own and of family members who were trying to embrace their witchy side but were demonized by family. I also saw women who wore too much jewelry being told to tone it down. Beautiful and unique dresses and garb are being tossed out or torn. There was a string of women within me and my ancestry who had tried to display their essence but were threatened repeatedly. In my past lives, they were killed or kicked out of town. So then I thought, well, what would I look like if I could embrace my essence and before my eyes and image flashed of a young woman with dark hair, winged eyeliner, bright clothes, a ring on every finger, big lashes, and LOVING the fact that people were talking about her, whether it was true or not. She loved being the mystery. She even started her own rumours about herself. This is VERY reflective of my current situation, so day by day I started wearing all the necklaces, rings, and bracelets I wanted till I jingled, I bought some new eyelashes, a bit of makeup, and am currently looking at finding some clothes to fit the vibe. 


The message I got was… Dress your character, it's your story. 



Your character, your story, is your SONG.

I do not believe the Siren’s song is a literal melody; it's the frequency of your authentic truth. When we suppress this, we mute our voices and dim our energy to make others comfortable while we tolerate being uncomfortable. 


By embracing your inner Siren, you give yourself permission to be too much to be deep and to be profoundly at ease. 


The ocean doesn’t have to chase the shore; it simply arrives over and over again by the sheer power of nature. 


It might feel a bit rebellious to stop the hustle and the chase, and I feel like that's because it is. We have been conditioned to believe that if we are not exhausted, we aren’t earning anything. When we stop pushing the ego panic’s. We might feel like we aren’t in control anymore. 


In the realms of energy, tension is a repellent, and when we are at odds with ourselves and our inner song, we’ve flipped the magnet the wrong way. 


By working through this, we are effectively facing a collective shadow in our society. We are also defying the ancestral work ethic. Sometimes it can feel like we are betraying the struggle that previous generations endured. 


But I can assure you that your ancestors did not pray for you to struggle and slave away. They prayed for your needs to be met, to have a rich, abundant, and comfortable life. For some lines, you are the answer to their prayers. 



The End of the Chase

This whole process essentially brought forward an energetic recalibration in me. It shifted me from a life governed by should’s and musts of the external world into a life governed by my internal rhythm. 


Was it easy… absolutely not. 


I am still learning and still have days where I fall back into old patterns. Throughout my time as a psychic and an energy healer, I have seen that its never an automatic flip. A switch being turned on or off. It takes repetition to keep your circuits going the way you want them to go, and life is going to life. Your ability to be able to come back into this state only gets easier the more you do it. Soon, it will become second nature. 


I needed to stop operating like a motor and start behaving like a magnet. The Siren Code taught me to inhabit my own space so fully that things begin to seek me out. Things started to “pop up” here and there. Offers were sent my way without a stressful push. 


I soon learned that my presence was my greatest asset and that I did not need to prove my worth. My lack of presence and saying no to the things that drained me would eventually speak for itself. I started to experience funny things over time. I would get more done in a couple of hours of aligned, inspired action that I used to get done in forced labour. 


It was then easier to feel the “pings” or the knowings of which river to flow down and trusted it more. 


I trusted myself more. 


I stopped trying to convince others and let my silence scream in the empty space. 


Though not an angry person, I started expressing my rage and emotions instead of drowning in them. 


I stopped running from my own depths. 


External chaos stopped throwing me around. 


Instead, it went around me. 


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Thanks for reading!

If you're interested in diving into your own Siren Code, everything I learned along the way has been formulated into a self-paced, 6-part course that includes akashic journeys/meditations, and rituals on my website 

Intro pricing and exclusive offer (guidance from your facilitators, Kayla and me) stands until April 16th. 

Sending a blessing to each one of you for reading,

-Kirsten 




 
 
 

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